Players: So now that we’ve left the romantics in the other room, let’s get down to serious business: sex. You obviously realize there’s a huge resource for finding sex online and for obvious reasons, you want more ass than you’re getting right now. When you first go online, you may feel like a kid in a candy store- checking profiles of fine singles in your area, sending off replies to flirtatious emails as fast as you can type them, and perhaps even having a live chat session with a few suitors. Things are looking good, and you can’t believe how easy it is to get the attention of such attractive people online- you must be the only hip kid on the block- right? Hold up partner.
Though you’ve signed up for countless ‘age verification’ services, downloaded a ton of ‘free’ webcam software, and even paid for a few ‘trial’ memberships, you might want to stop and ask yourself if you’re really any closer to getting laid than when you started this massive form filling effort. Before you read further, stop and check your credit card statements- you also might clean out your hard drive: nothing on the internet is free, and women are outnumbered at least 10:1 on most matching sites- which means there are a lot of scams to steal information and infect your computer. Let’s face it, a horny man is just about the easiest con in the world: ‘age verification’ is code for- “give me your credit card number so I can charge you for hidden services”: ever wonder why they won’t accept your passport or driver’s license? And ‘free download’ really means- “I’d like to put some spyware or malware on your computer so I can rape your bandwidth or processing speed.”
So let’s get a game plan- First of all, let’s get realistic: there’s nearly 10 times as many guys online looking for dates, let alone sex, so when it comes to hunting NSA pussy online, you’re looking at odds closer to 50 to 1. Girls, get a good spam filter, and consider hiding your picture to ward off the throngs of guys that will hardly even glance at your personal desires if you show them a fleshy pic unless you have all day to sort through hundreds of emails, in which case, go ahead and post a sexy picture of yourself and sit back and wait for the massive response.
Actually, a lot of NSA online dating success comes down to persistence and luck. For most players, our relationship goals are simply to use any guise of emotions, including the premise of a relationship, as tools for manipulating and tempting others into our bed, car, or other crazy sex venue you can lure them into (note: I’m not talking about rape, you dirt-bags, it’s just that you might have to get creative at times). Your tools of the trade are your hot profile picture (if you don’t have one, get one), and a confident profile copy (we’ll get to those later), but where you put them is also of great importance. This will be determined by your ideal dating pool.
Your ideal dating pool is rather the girls in your area that would most likely find you attractive. Take a look on the larger dating sites, and perhaps even join one or two. Just because they don’t explicitly promote NSA sex, doesn’t mean there aren’t plenty of readily willing singles there, nor does it mean that you can’t play these relationship-minded romantics for a few fuck sessions.
While these mainstream resources may offer a few nice possibilities, your best bet for drama-free, “sex for the sake of sex”, sex, is on adult dating sites such as AdultFriendFinder.com or Craigslist.org under ‘casual encounters’. While the competition may be fierce, especially in major cities, there are literally millions of sexually adventurous adults on these sites, and even more in other more niche-specific online communities. In these wild pools of candidates you may even be pressed to draw your own boundaries for sex play: such as whether you are willing to sleep with a married woman, or perhaps a couple, or perhaps have other ‘creative’ sexual acts performed on you, such as having an over-zealous BSDM dominatrix strap you to a horse stall with a branding iron pointed at your ass.
Bottom line is, do some research and find a few communities that really cater to your sexual needs and recognize that in the world of online sexual activities, there may be levels of ‘freaky’ that are beyond even your comfort level.